Emotional Hostage – Negotiate your freedom by Ian Wolstenholme

“Is it ok to be you? Is it ok to be everything you are? Is it ok to be the bits that only you know about, the bits that you keep hidden? I say yes, yes it is”

We have many parts and voices. Each part of our pysche represents a different part. We are not just one person we are a whole cast of characters. Sometimes we listen to one part of ourselves and sometimes to another. This leads to conflict within ourselves and conflict in our relationships. So how do we know which is the real part, the real me? Which part should we listen to?

The truth is that when we become totally identified with one part of us we have become an emotional hostage. That part of our pysche has taken us over and convinced us of something. You can be dieting for two weeks when another part of you takes over that says ‘what the hell, I want to eat cream cakes all day today’. If you then act on that you have been taken hostage. The part that was committed to the diet feels completely frustrated and a failure. It happens to all of us, we are all taken hostage at some time or another. The question is what to do about this? What is the path to freedom?

The solution is that we have to negotiate our freedom. All these different parts of us are meant to be there, there is nothing wrong in it. It is not possible or even preferable to get rid of them forever. The part that wants you to eat cream cakes all day is ok, it needs to have a say. The solution is to start to listen to all these parts, they are trying to tell you something. Each of these parts need to be heard. The seer is the part that sees all of this going on in you, the part that sees you acting in certain ways, the part that sees the cream cake disappearing down your mouth but is powerless to stop it.

The seer has to act as the negotiator. It sees the different parts of you. From the space of the seer you need to ask what the different parts are trying to tell you. Talk to that part of you and ask what do you need? You will probably find that a certain part needs to be loved, needs to cry, needs to be held. So now you have the chance to give that part what it needs. It wasnt really a cream cake that it needed, it needed to be held. It is about taking the time to stop and ask what that part is really trying to tell you. Then the negotiations continue, the part that was screaming for cream cakes is now fulfilled by being held and can agree to continue the diet in alignment with the committed dieter.

The important thing to see is that all these parts, voices are meant to be there, it is not a signal that there is something wrong with you. It is just a matter of employing a negotiator in the form of the seer to assess which parts need what and what value to give each part. From there we can start to be straightforward and communicate honestly with friends about what are true needs are. Asking simply ‘I need to be held right now’ .

Ian Wolstenholme – ‘Negotiate Your Freedom’ – Interview by Iain McNay

Ian Wolstenholme ‘Negotiate Your Freedom’ Interview by Iain McNay
Author of ‘Emotional Hostage — Negotiate Your Future’ talks about his awakening and how it impacted his life. ‘Self Discovery is the process of seeking yourself, seeing through the illusions of your conditioning and finding the real you. Everyone will tell you to be yourself but how can you know which of the voices inside your head is the real you?’

The Power of the now, trust & Enlightenment – Ian Wolstenholme, Glastonbury UK

From http://www.loveoftruth.org/ ; ” Ian is an enlightened spiritual visionary, whose work is to support people to experience a greater depth within themselves. He has been working with people for over twenty years, facilitating groups, doing talks and giving individual person alchemy consultations. Ian is willing to drop the mask and show others who he truely is – without pretence or hiding behind an enlightened facade. Energetically this creates a space where your true feelings and thoughts can come to the surface and everything that you are can be seen and accepted for what it is. Ians approach is to guide you into your own empowerment , so you are able to accept all the parts of yourself and see them rightly, for it is only in doing this that you can truely be free.

Ian Wolstenholme – Buddha at the Gas Pump Interview

Published on Feb 19, 2013
Ian Wolstenholme is an ordinary man who randomly awakened to the realized space in 1969. The assimilation of this process continues to this day, Ian was not transformed into a god or bestowed with remarkable powers. His consciousness was expanded to include the viewpoint from which the human condition could be examined and revealed to be as it is. Ian came to see the extent of our conditioning and the way in which this set of meanings govern life as it is lived. The massive false interpretations continue to be implanted as beliefs into the personalities of every being alive today.

Realized space is freedom from belief and meaning and provides a mature acceptance of what is.

This is not an easy place to live.

Ian’s book: Emotional Hostage: Negotiate Your Freedom

Interview recorded 2/2/2013

Cellular Awakening: How Your Body Holds and Creates Light by Barbara Wren

What if almost everything you’ve been told about health and the human body is wrong? What if you had within you the ability to heal from any condition?

This fascinating book by Barbara Wren shatters many of the myths that currently exist regarding health and illness, and presents a vision of the human body and healing that is both practical and inspirational. In essence, no matter what ailment you’re dealing with, you have the potential to heal yourself; and if you already enjoy great health, you can illuminate your consciousness in ways beyond your imagining. Whatever your current situation is, you can begin to feel a true connection to who you really are, as well as understand your ability to create your own reality.

Your human potential is far greater than you can possibly imagine and is intrinsically linked to what is unfolding within you at a cellular level. Each and every one of the trillions of cells within your amazing body has the potential to hold and utilize light in the form of bio photons, subatomic particles of light. When a cell is illuminated, the DNA within that cell is also illuminated, giving you access to the universal wisdom that is held within its matrix. By matching your microcosm (the cell) with the macrocosm (the universal energies), you can begin to unlock your true nature and realize your potential for greatness.

For the past 35 years, Barbara Wren has been searching for insights into who we really are and how our bodies work. She has been teaching and lecturing for the past 27 years, showing people a different approach to wellness through nutrition and healing techniques. Barbara has always believed that empowering individuals through contacting their own inner wisdom is the only true way back to wholeness and happiness within the universal laws and rhythms. She is the founder of the College of Natural Nutrition in the UK. Website: http://www.NatNut.co.uk

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Cellular Awakening with Oils and Light — Barabara Wren Interview

I met with Barbara Wren to discuss her ideas on how our cells use and store light. Barbara has been helping people heal naturally for over 35 years and is Principle lecturer at the college of natural nutrition.

In this interview and in her new book, Cellular Awakening, she explains that different types of oils from around the world have specific abilities to help us use light in our bodies. For the rest of this interview go to thriveandenjoy .co .uk ~ Video uploaded by Ian Tennant

10 Secrets For Success and Inner Peace ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer

Is your life path lit by your inner candle flame, or are you stumbling along in the dark? In Dr. Wayne Dyer’s new book, he reminds us of what so many people easily forget in the day-to-day grind of life-that material success isn’t what we’re ultimately trying to achieve, and therefore it shouldn’t be our driving force. Within each of us lies success and inner peace, which can be found once we understand that a deeper, richer life experience is characterized by a burning desire, or as Dr. Dyer describes it, an ‘inner candle flame.’

In this thought-provoking book, Dr. Dyer offers simple ways to change your life-and your outlook on life. The ten principles presented here apply to people who are just beginning their journey of discovery, as well as those who have already embarked on life’s winding path. Dr. Dyer urges us to listen with an open heart, and to apply the secrets that resonate with them and discard the rest. By doing so, we’ll learn to feel the peace of God that truly defines success.

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10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace by Dr Wayne Dyer

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