‘Unconditional Love’ – Meeting with Unmani


Published on Apr 2, 2016

Unmani talks about Unconditional Love in Satsang in Rishikesh, India. For more information about Unmani’s meetings and intensives see: http://www.die-to-love.com

Transcript :

This word Love has been used in so many different ways and carries so many different meanings for different people. Usually it is referring to a feeling. An experience of feeling ‘loving’. An experience of warmth and expansion. Usually in reference to somebody else. Loving somebody else or something else. Loving a particular experience. Loving one thing more than another. Feeling in love where you are all kind of excited and happy in this kind of spacy space. And there is a different kind of love. A love that, perhaps we use words and concepts and perhaps we like the idea of that kind of love. A universal love or the sense that we are all connected, we are all one. This sounds wonderful. It sounds beautiful. And sometimes we have experiences where we experience a moment of connection, even with a stranger in a train.

Sometimes you just have this connection where all the boundaries melt. And perhaps your mind puts words to it like universal love or recognising that we are all one. But then the experience passes and then you get annoyed with the person again or the next thing happens, thought comes in with this or that. The next feeling comes in. And this universal oneness, wholeness, love seems to be lost or at least forgotten.

I tend not to use the word love that much. Just because it has all these different meanings that people seem to misunderstand. But, if I am going to use the word love then I would use it as another word for ‘Who you really are’; Life Itself, Freedom, Truth, Consciousness, Awareness. love is another word for that. It is reflected in an experience of ‘feeling loving’. But that reflection just comes and goes. It is not permanent. It is an experience just like every other experience. A very sweet and beautiful one, a very tempting one to get hung up on and ‘to want more of’ but still an experience nonetheless. But the love that you are that doesn’t come and go. It is not a feeling. And this can often be a very tricky thing for people searching for love; waiting and hoping to know the love that they are. Because they are waiting for an experience. Waiting to feel loving and of course that will come and go, like every other experience. The love that you are doesn’t come and therefore doesn’t go.

The reason why I might use the word love as another word for who you are, is because ‘who you are’ includes everything that happens. This is why it is love. Love loves everything that happens just the way it is without exception. It doesn’t say: ‘I don’t like that bit’ or ‘I want more of that’. It doesn’t say: ‘I want to clean up that and then I will love it’. It just loves. It has no preference, no opinion. It is just open. More open than you could possible imagine. It is just loving whatever is here without exception. All the dirt on the carpet or on the fan that is spinning. All the ordinary stuff. And every sensation. The rumbling in your tummy, the noise outside. Every thought, even all those really annoying thoughts. Even those thoughts you feel quite ashamed of. Those really ugly ones. Love doesn’t care. It just loves innocently, openly. And I say love doesn’t care. That can seem like a strange contradiction. How can love not care. And that is the freedom of this love, this real love, that it doesn’t care. That it doesn’t need to care. It is not bound by some idea that I need to care. Or I need to be a caring person or a loving person. It just loves anyway. Even if you don’t care.

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