By Marc Margolius
The mythic paradigm of the Exodus narrative describes the inexorable triumph of the life-force over death, of wholeness over brokenness. In this narrative, Miriam, sister of Moses, represents a key figure: she assists in the plan to rescue her vulnerable infant brother Moses from Pharaoh’s infanticide, watches over him as he floats in a basket in the Nile, and engineers the arrangement by which he is adopted by Pharaoh’s daughter and nursed by his own mother.
Jewish legend teaches as well that after the Israelites had fled from enslavement in Egypt, they were accompanied on their journeys through the Sinai wilderness by a water source associated with Miriam. Wherever the people traveled, whatever travails they experienced along the way, Miriam’s well provided sustenance and healing. While such a well is not mentioned in the Torah itself, the classical rabbis inferred its existence because of the sudden absence of water after the death of Miriam.
In this mythic model, the waters of Miriam’s well signify the forces which, in an ongoing manner, preserve and sustain life. These forces can be understood in both material and immaterial senses. Water, air, and the elements of life sustain our environment and ourselves; we are dependent upon them for our continued survival. Some might add that we are dependent as well upon the human support of family, friends, and community in order to survive. And others might say as well that our existence as human beings depends upon a life force which nourishes us in non-material ways, as well.
While there is no singular accepted definition of spirituality, many understand the term to mean a sense of connection to something beyond the self, to a reality that is greater or deeper than the individual. We can understand personal spirituality as the capacity to experience one’s self as part of as a greater whole, providing a sense of transcendent purpose.
The converse of spirituality, in this understanding, is a sense of alienation, isolation, and disconnection from something beyond the self. Twelve Step programs describe themselves as a spiritually-based program to help individuals recover from addictive patterns of behavior used to medicate or avoid painful emotions, such as excessive shame or pain. They seek to address addicts’ frequently deep sense of alienation and disconnection by suggesting that they accept a “Higher Power” or develop a personal relationship with a “God of his/her understanding.”
In the framework of recovery programs, a spiritual approach may consist simply of understanding the group itself as a “Higher Power” providing an essential sense of love and support for the recovering addict. Frequently, the experience of connection to the group of fellow recovering people opens the door to the possibility of a sense of connection with a non-material source of support and connection – a “God of one’s understanding.”
Every human being, being singular and unique, wrestles at points in life with an existential sense of alienation and disconnection. We experience moments of “dryness” or emptiness, when we may feel depleted, depressed, even despairing. For some, the sense of disconnection may be physiological or biochemical, and virtually impossible to overcome on one’s one.
These moments of “dryness” may be understood as corresponding to the point in the mythic narrative of the Israelites’ trek through the wilderness when Miriam dies and no water is to be found. Each of us experiences as well moments of replenishment, when we are imbued with new sources of energy, faith and hope. These are reflected in the narrative when Miriam’s well provides the resources needed to move through the challenges of their journey.
In Jewish sacred texts, the Hebrew word hineini — literally translated as “here I am” connotes a profound sense of presence, openness and receptivity. It indicates the human experience of profound connection to the lived moment. In many narratives, this word is used to indicate a state of being which enables one to face what may otherwise be viewed as insurmountable obstacles. For example, at the burning bush, hearing the “call” of the Divine inviting him to return to Egypt and lead his people to freedom, Moses experiences self-doubt and fear of the unknown – and yet responds, “hineini – here I am.”
Thus, a sense of connection – whether to a moment in time, to other human beings, or to a Force, Power, or Transcendent Being – is a hallmark of spirituality. We can foster awareness of those connections by meditating, praying, communing with nature, cultivating relationships with family and friends, and/or by being of service to our fellow human beings: essentially “plugging ourselves into the grid,” linking our lives with the greater reality which sustains life, thereby adding to our capacity to meet life’s inevitable challenges and rebound from our setbacks.
As individuals, each of us may have our own preferred mode of tapping into this source of replenishment, consonant with our unique personalities and temperaments. Some connect through solitude or silence; others through connection with community, through words and/or song. Whatever the preferred mode, a regular practice of cultivating connection reduces stress and increases capacity to cope with challenge.
The Eleventh Step of Alcoholics Anonymous calls for seeking, through a regular practice of prayer or meditation “to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understand God….” The literature of A.A. describes in this way the role that prayer and meditation play in providing a source of renewal in its practitioners’ lives:
Those of us who have come to make regular use of prayer would no more do without it than we would refuse air, food or sunshine. And for the same reason. When we refuse air, light or food the body suffers. And when we turn away from meditation and prayer, we likewise deprive our minds, our emotions and our intuitions of vitally needed support. As the body can fail its purpose for lack of nourishment, so can the soul. We all need the light of God’s reality, the nourishment of His strength, and the atmosphere of His grace. Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 97-98 (emphasis added)
When spirituality is construed in this broad sense, embracing diverse modes by which one might experience connection to a reality beyond or deeper than oneself, new resources for negotiating life’s hills and valleys become accessible. Regardless of one’s belief or non-belief in a personal deity, there is power in recognizing the numerous ways in which one is inextricably connected to the fabric of life. Through prayer, meditation, appreciation of the natural world, or fostering deeper relationships with others, we are able to replenish ourselves from sources of sustenance beneath life’s surface, even when journeying through seemingly parched landscapes; all that is required is the willingness to pause, listen deeply, and notice the myriad ways in which our bodies, minds and souls can be replenished, each moment of our lives.
1. How do you understand the concept of spirituality?
2. Do you believe that spirituality is essential to cultivating personal resilience and inner strength? Why?
Source: BIG QUESTIONS ONLINE